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We don’t want to be in a relationship 90 percent of the time, but when we find someone we don’t really know how to keep them.
I didn’t want to engage in any type of relationship with the opposite sex because I needed time to learn how to balance everything that was going on in my life.Consciously, I had plenty of options and chances to indulge in sexual intercourse, but I didn’t, and that’s when I realized I was going to try and be celibate.After this realization, I decided to do some soul searching to really understand why I was celibate, and to decide whether or not I would stand firm on this decision. I didn’t take the necessary time to learn who they were and develop a close and personal connection with them for the people they were before I developed a connection with them sexually simply because I was physically attracted to them.Being alone is sometimes overwhelming, but with time it will get better.I suddenly realize that I never experienced being alone and getting to know myself. Not saying that I didn’t truly love the guys I loved, but I think I rushed into a lot of relationships in fear of being alone.With this hiatus, I realized that I subconsciously and consciously made the decision to practice celibacy.
I say I made this decision subconsciously and consciously because during this time, subconsciously, I did want to have sex, but I didn’t want to deal with the emotional and possible physical consequences that come along with it, and I didn’t want to have another meaningless sexual experience.I always dated someone and spent my time lifting them up. At twenty five years old, I realized that I wanted more than just a relationship. But I also said to myself, “Why do I have to jump from bed to bed to find him?” Our generation has quickly become the hookup generation.We don’t rely on our beautiful spirits to find people.People don’t know how to find people anymore or how to commit in a relationship. During this time of not having no strings attached sex, I will hopefully snag a guy who is willing to wait.I was a late bloomer and I didn’t do anything until I was in college.